Ruby Living GEM

“ As the deep red of a ruby masks detail, my obvious losses make my remaining abilities harder to notice.  Although my fine motor skills have become very limited, remember I am able to move and do simple things with my hands. You will need to anticipate, identify, and respond to all of my needs, even though I may not be aware of them. Plan to create a supportive environment, help with the details of care, and structure my day. Just as a crossing guard directs traffi c, you will need to guide my movement and transitions. I can rarely stop or start on my own and switching gears is a challenge. Move with me first, then use your body to show me what you want me to do next, going one step at a time. Hand-under-Hand® assistance helps me to feel safe and secure and to know what to do. Danger is part of my life due to losses in visual skills, chewing abilities, balance, and coordination. You can reduce the risks to me, but not eliminate them. I can still have moments of joy when you are able to provide what gives me pleasure.”

-Ruby